To start off let me admit that I'm a little slow. It's taking me 30+ years to figure out that life is a game. That's right, it's one BIG GAME!

I always hear people say that online dating doesn't work for them. I always venture to ask why? This question usually generates a raised eyebrow face look of "Why did you just ask me that?"

Honestly, I can forgive Ms. Rachel Dolezal, as twisted as her story is I'll share with you why we should all forgive the transgression.

In my youth, I remember wanting an army of smoking hot babes, fast cars and piles of money. I get that many of my ill conceived ideas were formed and influenced by television shows, music videos and some familial influences.

Years ago when I first got started at this, meeting women was a real challenge because it was hard to approach a woman publicly risking rejection and perhaps a bit of public humiliation.