Any day on Craigslist, you'll be sure to find angry people in the Craigslist personals section and find a rants. Ahh good old internet anonymity, what would we do without it?
Judging the wording of these responses, it's safe to say these messages stem from deep seated frustrations. I think those of us who use Craigslist Personals often, can agree that Craigslist is sort of a "BBW Heaven".
It's providing them with an opportunity to do the same thing it is providing to you, that is a chance to meet others.
Why so angry?
Here are two questions to ponder:
Is the frustration and anger because these women are rejecting your advances?
Or... and this is a big OR!!
Have you set yourself up by having unrealistically high expectations of Craigslist Personals?
If we are to say women are the root to our frustration, then we have to recognize our part and stop playing the blame game. Making women the scape goat is a step in the wrong direction. These rants are ugly and only reveal the negative behavior of the person behind them. I have been there myself at times so I understand where they are coming from.
My analysis is that these guys probably feel slighted because this is primarily what Craigslist has to offer. BBW's, Cougars, and Single Moms next to Gay men account for the majority of people who use Craigslist to meet others. They're there like you, they have just as much of a right to look for someone as anyone else.
Lashing out at them will no solve your problem. Being that this is the case, you might as well learn how to control your emotions because when you lash out, you're out of control and it shows. That's not a good look or place to be my friend.
What do you think about all of this? Share your thoughts and leave a message.