The decision to make and that's what you have to decide. Women like to date but they're in it for something, the question is are you in it for something too?
What are you looking for, to get a relationship and find love, or to meet someone and hook up? Whether you're male or female reading this article it's important to know where you stand.
Depending on how you play your cards things can unfold into a relationship that eventually leads to something more permanent like the M word. Or it could just be another fling of fun and excitement. What it's important to note here is your intentions as you step out there.
Online dating definitely helps people to find each other but the steps to getting into a relationship are not always so clear. How many profiles or ads have you read "seeking a real person", what's all that about?
Well everybody is a real person but their intentions may not always be genuine. Just as, the person you meet may not always be loyal. We say that because in a relationship trust is important. Some say they want a relationship but when you approach them as such they shy away from the commitment aspect.
Some say they are not looking, when in fact they really are. Decoding what someone says can be flawed, those who have been lead on know this all too well. So while words may not be clear actions certainly are. You may be looking for a serious relationship, so know where you stand because knowing you stand will help you get what you want in the end.
Last but not least, remember that people are people and you can make demands about what you want, all you want but in the end, they have to decide if what you're looking for fits what they're looking for.
Depending on what part you play one path can lead to what you want, while another can lead to a dead end.